Your Questions About The Real Biz
David asks…
What do people really mean when they say “How ya doin”, and give you one big mutha of a smile?
Man I am puzzled. They say “How ya doin” and before I have time to think says,”good, good” and move on to their real biz. The other day I was down with chronic bronchitis and said “cough, cough, not so …” and the fella just said “good, good” and moved on. Why do people even ask? Do they have time to listen? Do they care if you are doing good or bad? What is the duty of a social individual to respond to such anti social queries. Should I respond like I really feel. “Well bro, life sucks, I have this cold and it wont go away ….. shut up and listen…. since yo asked ya little playa…. I got the chills … cant go to the doc …. soup tastes terrible …. even my dog can smell my bad breath … can ya help me feel better… ”
Or should I just shrivel up like a cute magnolia and go ” fine and u? ” I think its a waste of time asking strangers how they doing, so why ask? Jus say hi and “Good Morning” , better still “Bad Morning” if the morning hasnt been good to ya n move
on?How bou u
Jere answers:
How Are You Doing?
How do you respond when someone asks you how you are? Usually your answer can be short and brief. How you respond reveals a great deal of where you are in the moment.
Your response can be negative, so-so, or positive. Negative could mean lousy, resentful, angry, hurt, depressed. While so-so can indicate that you are hanging in, surviving, feeling stuck and not feeling as if you were living your life fully.Your positive resopnse could be: great!, fantastic! And the person who asked you the question would automatically feel the zest and enthusiasm of your energy as you are expressing yourself.
Which category do you identify with? If you answered negatively or with a so-so response, your vibrations go out to the other person on a very low level and they may be put off by it. The truth is as you make the negative or so-so statement, your body takes on the image of these feelings as well and you carry them with you until you are ready to release them with a more positive response. Do you really believe you feel any better after using this means of expression? Of course not! The negativity perpetuates itself through your body, emotions, your mind and spirit.
If you really believe that someone else is going to change this pessimistic attitude you are carrying, you are wrong.It is up to you to determine your thoughts and the attitude you choose to present yourself to another. Are you even aware that you are expressing yourself as you are? Many people express themselves negatively without being aware that they are doing so. This is because negative thinking is habitual. It is a conditioned belief that you have bought into. Your words are your own, self-fulfilling prophecy. Your mind is attracted to negative people, circumstances and experiences that reflect your belief.
When you make a choice to repeatedly state that your life is magnificent, your mind moves you to those positive people, circumstances and experiences that reflect this optimistic belief that you have chosen to focus on.
Take a few minutes to focus on some negative thought with your eyes closed. Really get into the thought and feel what you are feeling as you view the experience in your mind’s eye. Notice areas that are holding stress; notice your breathing: the rise and fall of your belly with each breath and exhale.Do this for a few minutes. Make note of all that you experience so that you may write about it at the completion of the exercise.
Now close your eyes once again focusing on something wonderful; something funny, something that brings joy into your heart. You need not focus on this more than 20 seconds as this is all it takes to shift your perceptions, your vibrations, your energy and your feelings. Feel how you are feeling. Is there any stress? How is your breathing now? How is your posutre? Your optimism reflects on your entire being…mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually in the moment. Again, focus on these feelings so that you can write about them.
When you come from a space of feeling optimistic, other’s of like minded experiences will be attracted to you. More positive experiences will come into your life. The Universe gives you what you focus your attention and expectations on.
So, the next time someone asks how you are doing, when you want to say lousy or whatever, change that thought immediately to “wonderful” and test consciously how both of you feel and respond with your vibrancy. Your attitude determines how your life will flow.
As a caregiver, you are more apt to fall into modes of depression, anger, fear and resentment. This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t be acknowledging these feelings. You must understand that they are a part of you. But there are other aspects of yourself that will strengthen you and help you to pull through the given circumstances or situation. The choice is all in your attitude and perception and the choices you make.
Take time to write about the feelings you experienced in both exercises. Work at doing this as much as possible, writing your feelings after your experiences. This will help you to shift your perceptions and attitudes towards coping with all the challenges you face in your role as a caregiver.
By responding or acting as if you are more optimistic, your vibrations raise your energy levels more than you can imagine. For some of you this can transform you automatically. For other, it may take time and concentration until you are able to change your faulty belief systems. Stick with it! Don’t give up! It Works!
How do I know? I have been there!!!!!!
Remember to be gentle and nurturing to yourself. Richest blessings.
Helen asks…
What dose my lottery dream tell me?THIS IS IMPORTENT! HELP?
Ages ago i had a real biz my mum would win the lottery.
A couple of weeks ago my mum was outside and she felt a message from are passed away auntie to look at the lottery book (she used to right the lottery numbers each week and see what numbers came up most and gave it to my mum. My mum chose some lottery numbers but we didn’t win anything.
[NOW FOR THE DREAM]
It started of I came home from school and my mum showed me a ring she got from ASDA.I said that’s a nice ring how much was it?!
She said £1,000 I said Omg! She said we won the lottery £4,000
PLEASE TELL ME WHATS HAPPENING HERE
Jere answers:
Your heart wants so much for your mum.you love her and want to see her happy.
Susan asks…
is this a real website? http://www.uggboot.biz/index.html?
i found there are many different names of website that link to the same home address. and i found out some domain informations. such website changed the name many times and registered in china instead of within uk. can we believe it? though someone asked this question before. and the answer one said it’s true. i dont if the people who answered it can separate the true and the fake.
here is the domain website link:http://whois.domaintools.com/offugg.com
i found there are many different names of website that link to the same home address. and i found out some domain informations. such website changed the name many times and registered in china instead of within uk. can we believe it? though someone asked this question before. and the answer one said it’s true. i dont if the people who answered it can separate the true and the fake.
after many researches of mine, i can say the website is fake absolutely. for more informations pls go through “Real Genuine UGG® Australia Boots and “Ugg Boots”” via the link http://blog.alltheshoes.co.uk/2008/10/31/fake-ugg-boots-buyer-beware/. you will find more. thanks for all guys answered it.
Jere answers:
The company is located in China, they are only selling fakes of brand name items…:-(
http://whois.domaintools.com/uggboot.biz
Jenny asks…
What the real address to get photos sign and reply from Criss Angel on fan mail.biz?
I see on fanmail.biz two different address to sent a letter to Criss angel.One to Ca and to NY.The one to NY work last year by writing to him.But this year someone got a RTS by using the address to New york.I went on the website of Criss Angel and my guess that his e-mail for fan mail or something but I did get a reply from him yet.What the right address to get a reply from him?
Jere answers:
If you send him an email i dont think he answers back-(sadly)…he probally has people who do for him
Sandy asks…
I went to (www.trulie.myffi.biz) product mpg-caps better for the enviornment and better mpg? Is this for real?
This is Eddie Freeman’s number which gives more information regaurding the product. My parents have currently been using the capsils and have seen an improvement with the mpgs on their automobiles. 469-272-4644. Made in America, and better for the enviornment, as well as saves you money at the gas tank.
Jere answers:
Well ask your mom and dad
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